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Created Jun 14, 2025 by Blanche Workman@blancheworkmanMaintainer

Get the most Money in your Divorce! Top Attorney Reveals her Sly Pointers


You won't be surprised to hear that as a divorce lawyer among the questions that I'm frequently asked is, 'when is my finest time to apply for divorce in order to get the greatest settlement?'.

The prize they have in mind is their spouse (or spouse's) pension and I provide an extremely basic answer: the longer the marriage - the bigger the claim.

Take Trudy whose second marital relationship was to Eric, a rich residential or commercial property developer who had a few residential or commercial properties, ISAs and financial investments. To Trudy, the real prize was Eric's pension which deserved more than ₤ 1 million.

The marital relationship pertained to an end after five years, but when Trudy attempted to claim against Eric's pension she was devastated to be informed by her lawyer that rather of the half-share that she had actually calculated in her mind that she would be granted, she was incorrect.

Eric could, in truth, ring fence all the pension that he had developed prior to the marriage. This suggested that Trudy could just claim a small percentage that had actually accumulated during their short time together.

The judge felt that the excessiveness of Trudy's claim was too high and that the bulk of the wealth in the marriage had actually originated from Eric and this was reflected in the settlement that Trudy received.

So while she got a capitalised settlement to reflect the lifestyle that they had enjoyed together, it was no place near her expectations. The ethical of this story? A short marriage equals less assets granted.

It could not have actually been more different for Gloria, who was married to Frank for more than 30 years. to having affairs with ladies who he referred to as 'the hired aid', believing it did not truly count as adultery. It did to Gloria. As the pensions accumulated throughout their 3 decade relationship, Gloria was able to claim half of it and was given equality of all the pensions.

Vanessa Lloyd Platt, a top divorce lawyer, says the longer the marriage, the larger the divorce claim

Frank might not ring fence one penny of it. And thanks to the length of the marriage, Gloria received what is called a 'Joint Lives Order' for upkeep. Simply put, this implies Gloria would be given upkeep for life, although this is unusual today as a lot of maintenance payments are for a set term only.

It was not helped by the reality that Frank had actually not been forthcoming over the real degree of his savings and had at the last moment attempted to move funds offshore. He was given a punitive award and Gloria benefited from several thousands more on her side of the divorce formula. The moral here is that dishonesty does not pay - especially in a divorce court.

So that's brief and long marital relationships - what about a longer than average length of marriage (12 years) for say 15 years?
romseyaustralia.com
Here the court will equalise the capital of the pension unless wealth has actually been accrued before or undoubtedly, for a period, after separation.

It is always vital that a pensions expert analyse the worth of a pension so the right figure can be computed.

Which is where Gemma came unstuck. She had a 16-year marriage to City broker Paul. His pension encountered numerous countless pounds. Gemma was none too troubled by the pension but, like numerous wives I see, she wanted the security of staying in the home that she enjoyed. So instead of declaring any of Paul's pension she traded it off against the worth of the house.
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This is called a 'set-off', however as a legal representative I would constantly suggest to any customer that an actuary report is gotten very first and all alternatives are considered.

Wives in particular can come out with a lesser deal when they choose this choice. The moral here is that you may feel young and ready to begin afresh, however do not be too quick to trade away your future pension.

Vanessa states that in a marriage longer than the average of 12 years, the court will equalise the capital of the pension unless wealth has actually been accrued before or, for a duration, after separation

Another concern I'm typically asked is whether a conciliator will take into account all of the couple's properties to maximise a settlement.

A lot of individuals appear to believe that mediators will go simple on the parties - and spouses in specific - may get away with more by utilizing a conciliator, than if the matter is before the court.

This is a fallacy, as Neil discovered. The business director believed that mediation would suggest that he could put pressure on Judy to settle. It had actually been a long marriage spanning twenty-eight years and he believed that Judy was not the brightest. He felt he might bluff his way through and bamboozle the conciliator.

What Neil had actually not reckoned upon was the tenacity and cleverness of the arbitrator who insisted that all details be produced for the conferences. The arbitrator might see that Neil was being obstructive in answering inquiries about financial transactions and movement of money between subsidiary business.

Little had actually Neil suspected that the arbitrator had been a forensic investigator for HMRC, before becoming a matrimonial conciliator. After numerous sessions the arbitrator suggested a settlement figure which Neil was outraged by and insisted they litigate. Unfortunately for Neil - the specific very same settlement figure was reached in court. It deserves keeping in mind that mediation can be a far better method of dealing with matters however is never a soft option.

Mediators will assist the couple and instruct actuaries to work out pension departments whatever the length of the marriage. The courts are now encouraging the parties to think about options to court proceedings especially. Arbitration is likewise being motivated. All these choices are available in other words, medium and long marriages.

This is the reason EVERYONE is separating ... and why your marriage is at risk without you recognizing

So no matter the length of your marriage, I recommend all my clients not to have impractical expectations of what the last figure must be. It's vital to realise that you can not penalize your soon to be ex-partner in the courtroom. Unless you can demonstrate that the behaviour of your partner has had a monetary effect, the conduct or behaviour will be neglected.

Let me present you now to Henry, who believed that he was being particularly creative when he transferred his shares in the family business to his brother, cashed in the capital from his pension and gave it to a pal and bought himself a Lamborghini.

This was since Claudia, his wife of twelve years had begun divorce procedures. At the end of the lawsuits, the court found that he was intentionally attempting to reduce the possessions readily available to Claudia and included back all the value of the pension, the cost of the Lamborghini and the shares to his side of the formula and then divided all of it in half. Henry's actions were so contrived that his efforts to drain the possessions totally backfired on him. Oh and Henry had to sell the Lamborghini.

The moral of the story when it comes to how to increase your settlement? Don't try to be too creative, play reasonable and truthfully, or risk the really opposite of what you wanted to achieve. Divorce can be a minefield, and it does not have to explode for either of you if you both take reasonable actions towards dealing with matters.

* All names have been altered to safeguard customer identity.

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